Monday, March 29, 2010
is Live-in relationship’ good?
There has been a lot of buzz about ‘Live in relationships’, burning issue of Indian culture and society now days. We all know the Indian society where the ratio of urban and rural people is 20/80. Indian culture lives in rural area not in urban area. As a result our rural people never adopt this trend. Indian culture is so rich and sound that there is no need of copy other culture. ‘Live-in’ not our own culture, totally a western culture then why we agree to?
What is ‘Live-in relationship?
Obviously the meaning of ‘Live-in relation ship; people live with each other without getting married, is call live-in relationship. This relationship adopted mostly Youngsters. Youngsters sacrifice everything for the sake of winning their desire. As a result they cross the barrier of our society; during living relation ship parental love vanished and changes another format heterosexual love. In Live-in relationship there is no emotional attachment, the attachment is only and only physical attachment at last they fed up with this relationship and leave each other.
At last the result is very bad between both youngsters and the result of this relation affected there familiar life. They not attached there family emotional because the development there nature not emotionally only physically and there relation end up very soon.
Indian people believe in marriage, and marriage is not a time pass it is a part of social culture, we could do marriage not only time pass but survive of life. In hindu dhram it is a kram of human in our dhram sex is without marriage is against of our religion.
In marriage life the bond is not single there is multi type bond and the attachment is both physical and emotional. In marriage life both are responsible to each other, they understand their responsibility very well, but in live-in the relation only for needs and no more than cobwebs which they try to escape and the relation scattered like a pack of cards.
The Supreme Court of India assumed his judgment that living together of a man and a woman without getting married wan not an offence. This is not good judgment to sound health in Indian culture. The bench of judge said that in ancient time lord Krishna and Radha live without marriage, this is example don’t suit here because the relation in that time is without any advantage the relation is spiritual but in the present time the relation develop of self benefit, so there is no emotional attachment only physical attachment and result break of very soon.
A very common human tendency is we all go easier way, ‘Live-in’ is the easier way in comparisons to marriage because there is no commitment here so youngster prefer it, but a smooth road never produce a perfect driver, youngster choose the shortcut to achieve their objective and requirements but in long run they go down.
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